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Dr. Venessa Marie Perry

The untold story of “meno-divorce”

Published 5 days ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

The hot flashes and sleepless nights are real—but let’s be honest: menopause stirs unrest that goes far beyond the body.

For many women, this transition shines a light on relationships that no longer feel steady.

And it’s not just personal—it’s a trend. Researchers at Bowling Green State University found that divorce among adults 65 and older has nearly tripled since 1990. Today, divorces among adults over 50 account for nearly 40% of all divorces in the U.S. That means midlife isn’t just a season of hot flashes—it’s a season where many are rethinking what’s worth holding onto, and what’s not.

Let me be clear: menopause doesn’t cause divorce.

But it can unearth questions long left unasked. Questions about love, respect, partnership, and whether the life you’ve built still aligns with who you’re becoming.

But here’s what I need you to hear: you don’t have to navigate this reckoning alone. Alignment, revival, and healing are possible—but they require guidance, tools, and a space that honors your whole journey.

That’s exactly why I built BYOND. A 12-month experience with coaching, community, and expert guidance for women in midlife—because you deserve support that matches the depth of your transition.

In 8 days, the doors to BYOND open. The circle will be intimate. The work will be deep. And the transformation will be real.

I see your courage,

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Dr. Venessa Marie Perry

Psychologist|Executive Coach|Strategist|Author

Welcome to my Creator Page! As a psychologist, organizational and leadership development consultant, and executive coach with over 25 years of experience, my aim is to help individuals and organizations build high-performing teams, master effective communication, and transform relationships. The main vehicles to facilitate this transformation include 1-on-1 executive coaching, strategy consultations and the BYOND group coaching experience, a sanctuary and community for Black women to inspire, uplift, and empower one another while focusing on well-being and collective transformation.

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